By Teresa King
Lately, I have been meeting people who are working
hard and trying their very best and they are not
making any money online. And, I started thinking,
what is it that makes one person successful and
another one not successful?
It is the attitude of self-worth. We get what
we want out of life by believing that we deserve
to succeed. Your idea of what success is, could
easily be different than mine.
Some would like notoriety, others wealth, some
health. Some want it all, and amazingly get it!
To begin with, you have to start with throwing
away past failures, past nasty things that have
been said to you, and past labels. Growing up for most
people is hard. You learn from your past, each
of us has had pain thrown at us by inconsiderate
others. Or, by well meaning others, who didn't know
better.
Words, like you are worthless, you are lazy,
you are the family trouble maker, you are the slow
one, you are the one that will never make it, echo
in our minds and give us self-doubt.
So throw those away. They are worthless. I mean
it! Discard it and consider the source of that pain.
Make new labels for yourself. You are worthy, you
deserve success, you are a winner, and you are good.
Go on revamp those thoughts.
Your own attitude can make you or break you.
For instance people who do not have high self-esteem,
will often not even know how to get paid for their
labor. Here is a tip:
"How will you be paying for this, check or credit card?"
People who are struggling financially forget that many
others are not. So when pricing what you have to sell,
think about what it is worth, not about the price.
When people want something, they will buy it, or write
to you and ask for a bargain, but they will manage.
If you want to help someone that is struggling, by
all means, help them. But, remember, that in order to
be able to spread that helpline, you need to think of
yourself first.
Drop all negativity and self-doubt, and quit blaming
others for things that stop you from your goals. You
are the goal maker. You are the one that can say,
"HEY my past is over... My new self is my responsibility.
I can learn from the bad breaks in life, and push
forward. No one can stop me from my goals."
Think successful. Go on, is your car dirty? Clean it! Never mind that it may be old. A bar of soap is very
important. Successful people look successful, and many
started with nothing except the very will to succeed and
knowing they deserved success.
Is your front lawn ready for success?
Picture yourself in that new car you want.
Picture yourself in that home you want. Don't be
shy. Dream the dream, and then tell yourself you
deserve that dream and go out and get it!
Copyright 2001
Teresa King is the owner of http://www.tipsfortop.com
and highly recommends reading positive ebooks that build your
self esteem.
